I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.

I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become.
CARL JUNG
Are you the net result of the transformative events that have transpired in your life previously?
We all are.
But that does not mean that those events have to dictate whom we are becoming.
Circumstances, some much larger than life, are unquestionably substantial factors in our lives… and many carry influence as to how we develop as individuals and as a society. How could they not?
If we evaluate the biggest variables in our lives thus far, we are readily able to see how some of these circumstances have colored our future through their respective impact.
Does this necessarily mean that they will absolutely dictate our future?
Not necessarily.
We are but a lump of clay and, as a result, we are more likely to evolve, predicated upon how some of these circumstances have impacted us. That said, there are many people who accept their past as a direct limiting factor in how the rest of their lives will potentially evolve.
That is directly where the decision comes into play. Even though it is likely that a larger than life event may create specific responses in us, we are not directly pointed to a future that is a foregone conclusion. Indeed, we are fascinated by the stories of those who have risen above the extenuating circumstances in their lives, in order that they might become the person that attracts us in the first place.
We all have choices. One of these choices is to determine whether or not we are ready and willing to accept our past as the prognostication of our future. History is populated with countless accounts of those who have weathered very difficult circumstances in their childhood or subsequent years, and yet, something deep within that individual rose above those circumstances in order that they might leverage a deeper belief within themselves, which then galvanized in their favor and catapulted them into remarkable accomplishments.
Is it solely that these individuals are extraordinary? Or, is it possible that they were in possession of this most rudimentary idea, postulated by Carl Jung and others?
I believe that the truth is that we all have this power, yet most people do not understand this basic concept, and as a direct result, live lives of mediocrity, for no better reason, then no one has shared with them, the core truth about how they might better themselves and leave any of those coloring chapters in their rearview mirror. Instead, the opportunities for their future are manifested by their direct will and desire.
Never settle for any limiting factor in your life. It is far wiser to visualize light years beyond that limitation in order that you might aim for the stars and actually arrive there.
Happy Sunday!
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