In life, it is important to know when to stop arguing with people and simply let them be wrong.

In life, it is important to know when to stop arguing with people and simply let them be wrong.
How many ongoing arguments have you carried in your relationships? Personal. Professional. Parental. Political.
Some you win. Some you lose. Some you just have to throw your arms in the air and let it go.
Why is that so hard?
Why is it so important to us to change another’s mind?
Sometimes this is caused because they have the wrong impression of us and we would like to set the record straight.
Sometimes it is due to a diametrically opposing perspective on a topic, issue, law, or other item.
Sometimes it is because we fear they are going to harm an innocent 3rd party.
And sometimes…. It is just because they are complete and total ignorant human beings spouting off on things that they know nothing about, have only researched in a special interest group set of articles on Facebook and profess to know what the fuck they are talking about.
Finding that internal line of not wishing to set the record straight is an acquired skill, to be certain. I find that I am most desirous of crossing the line and setting the record straight when someone in either a personal or professional relationship has formed an inaccurate opinion of me or something that I or my company did. In that situation, I am hard pressed to let up until I have made my point.
Life is short. I am spending mine making a difference where I may. And letting the others run their lives as they see fit. I do not correct people’s opinions on Facebook any longer, because, “Frankly my dear, I don’t give a damn.”
Happy Tuesday!
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