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<url><loc>https://brianweiner.com/2026/05/12/have-a-good-heart-and-healthy-boundaries-otherwise-your-life-is-for-everyone-else-and-you-lose-yourself-kindness-is-everything-but-setting-limits-allows-you-to-remain-true-to-who-you-are-2/</loc><news:news><news:publication><news:name>Brian Weiner</news:name><news:language>en</news:language></news:publication><news:publication_date>2026-05-12T21:25:53+00:00</news:publication_date><news:title>Have a good heart and healthy boundaries. Otherwise, your life is for everyone else and you lose yourself. Kindness is everything, but setting limits allows you to remain true to who you are.</news:title></news:news><image:image><image:loc>https://brianweiner.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/7b4a3-anonymous-480.jpg?w=150</image:loc></image:image></url><url><loc>https://brianweiner.com/2026/05/11/you-have-been-criticizing-yourself-for-years-and-it-hasnt-gotten-you-anywhere-try-complementing-and-accepting-yourself-and-see-what-could-happen/</loc><news:news><news:publication><news:name>Brian Weiner</news:name><news:language>en</news:language></news:publication><news:publication_date>2026-05-11T15:25:29+00:00</news:publication_date><news:title>You have been criticizing yourself for years and it hasn&#8217;t gotten you anywhere. Try complementing and accepting yourself and see what could happen.</news:title></news:news><image:image><image:loc>https://brianweiner.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/02/542a1-anonymous-478.jpg?w=150</image:loc></image:image></url></urlset>