Brian Weiner

You can’t change the past, but you can change the way you think about it. Wouldn’t it be nice if life came with the opportunity to reverse and then undo some of the decisions that we made previously?  If there were such an option, would you use it?  Given that…

Love is not what you say, love is what you do. Have you ever had somebody do something for you that was such an over the top act of kindness, that you were touched beyond words? Professing love for another human being is one thing, but acting on that love…

Life is simple. We make it complicated by overthinking and overanalyzing.  What is your trigger moment that takes you from your contemplation to your action? Depending upon the importance and complexity of the issue, the trigger may be instantaneous or it could potentially stretch out over an elongated period of…

Meaningful silence is always better than meaningless words. It is an interesting social phenomenon, that the more comfortable you are with another human being, the more comfortable you can be in their presence, without a word spoken. In most relationships, we are continually working to keep the flow of conversations…

A few bad chapters doesn’t mean your story is over. Appearances can be highly deceiving. One vantage point does not define an entire scenario. If you look at other people’s lives, and presume that there were not tough chapters within those lives, you are almost certainly making a massive mistake.…

There’s a difference between being liked and being valued. A lot of people like you, not as many value you. Be valued. A person of value delivers something of consequence to the equation. The more interesting variable in the thought process is “what specifically constitutes value?” In its most traditional…

I will allow life’s changes to make me better not bitter. There is a tremendous growth opportunity, awaiting each of us, at every stage of the equation, especially in those moments when it is clear that we are not going to get exactly what we asked for, nor what we…

Sometimes you need to walk alone, to find yourself. There are times, when the very best person for you to discuss something extremely controversial with, is yourself. These are the moments when you have the most difficult considerations before you, and genuinely no one else will be able to help…