Brian Weiner

An alpha, who desires to dance with other alphas, needs to be able to lead and be lead. BRIAN WEINER If you want to dance in the biggest of leagues, you must be fully capable of both. If you have an alpha personality and you wish to collaborate, lead, partner…

The smile on my face does not mean my life is perfect. It means that despite my challenges, I choose to focus on my blessings. Is your life perfect? Have you ever met anyone whose life was/is perfect? I believe that perfection starts with frame of reference. If you understand…

Treat everyone with politeness and kindness, not because they are nice, but because you are. Can you bite your tongue? All the time? Most of the time? Or on rare occasions? The opportunity to be civil, polite, and most importantly, kind, could not be more important in life, for a…

Wait for the one, but do not wait for someone to be the one. J H HARD Everyone deserves ample time to show their true colors. When you are pursuing relationships, both personal and professional, you have two options that are continuously trying to stay in balance with one another.…

Be careful who you push away… some of us don’t come back. Have you ever had a conflict in which you felt the other party was treating you with less than the same courtesy you have extended to them? What choice did you make at that moment? In most cases,…

When the mind is weak, the situation is a problem. When the mind is balanced, the situation is a challenge. When the mind is strong, the situation becomes an opportunity. BUDDHA What are you truly made of? We learn these things about ourselves as life puts us to the test.…

Make some time, to kill some time, to discover that time itself, doesn’t even exist. BRIAN WEINER Once upon a time, it was New Year’s Day. Starting a new year enables all of us to simultaneously cross a metaphorical line, giving everyone a sense of rebirth of sorts. It is…

Don’t force yourself to fit in where you don’t belong. If you have worked to find your sense of belonging in a certain place and it is not connecting for you and the others around you, is it appropriate to leave? There is no one correct answer to that question,…

We love music because it’s the only thing that stays after everything and everyone is gone. The adrenaline of the moment is long lost in your memory. To bring it up conjures a few traces of visuals and key moments. But when you put on that live album, you are…

Notice the people who make an effort to stay in your life. A person who goes the extra mile to demonstrate your value to them, in a kind and meaningful way, is a relationship worthy of investing all that you have to offer. There are all sorts of transactional relationships…