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Continue reading →: Just because you’re offended, doesn’t mean you’re right.Just because you’re offended, doesn’t mean you’re right. Being offensive can happen with or without intent. The act of being offensive is causing someone to feel deeply hurt, upset, or angry. This can happen for a wide spectrum of reasons. A look, act, statement, joke, picture, story, book, movie, song,…
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Continue reading →: I know what I bring to the table… So trust me when I say that I am not afraid to eat alone.I know what I bring to the table… So trust me when I say that I am not afraid to eat alone. What is the difference between healthy ego and one that is out of control? Certainly we would recognize the extremes of such variables. But most of us fall…
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Continue reading →: I had to make you uncomfortable, otherwise you never would have moved.I had to make you uncomfortable, otherwise you never would have moved. UNIVERSE Sometimes life is so comfortable that the prospect of moving with any real significance comes with a resolute feeling of “not a chance.” And then something happens…. A lease ends, a relationship terminates, a job comes to…
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Continue reading →: Sometimes I think that it is better to never ask why.Sometimes I think that it is better to never ask why. PINK As I was working out in the gym this AM, this song (Try) came up in my playlist. I have sung the lyrics 100 times, but today, I questioned the thought behind this lyric. In the song, it…
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Continue reading →: Respect other people’s feelings. It might mean nothing to you, but it could mean everything to them.Has anyone ever made the simplest of comments to you that really kicked you in the gut, and were totally unaware of how insensitive their comment was? This happens all the time. People are trying their hardest to make their way through life. Most of us are hiding some aspect…
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Continue reading →: While physics and mathematics may tell us how the universe began, they are not much use in predicting human behavior because there are far too many equations to solve. I’m no better than anyone else at understanding what makes people tick, particularly women.While physics and mathematics may tell us how the universe began, they are not much use in predicting human behavior because there are far too many equations to solve. I’m no better than anyone else at understanding what makes people tick, particularly women. STEPHEN HAWKING I love this aphorism because…
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Continue reading →: You are free to choose, but you are not free from the consequences of your choice.Making a decision is, in many cases, almost thoughtless. For example, will I read Brian’s musing today or not? I would presume you put almost zero thought into that decision, it is a simple yes or no. That said, what if what I am talking about on a particular day…
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Continue reading →: Do you want comfort or solutions?Do you want comfort or solutions? Such a small phrase, yet omnipowerful in most kinds of relationships. In Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus, John Gray shares that men always want to fix something. We come out of our man cave, see an issue that is wrong and…
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Continue reading →: Lovely thing to learn from water: Adjust yourself in every situation and in any shape, but most importantly…find your own way to flow.Lovely thing to learn from water: Adjust yourself in every situation and in any shape, but most importantly…find your own way to flow. Water is perhaps the single most unheralded variable in our daily lives. Without it, none of the rest happens. Your body is 60% water. 71% of the…
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Continue reading →: One thing about them tables… They always turn.One thing about them tables… They always turn. You do not have to be Inspector Clouseau in an Agatha Christie novel in order to witness the tables turning. This happens all the time, right before our very eyes. Take a situation at work in which you feel aggrieved by a…
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