How lucky I am to have something that makes saying goodbye so hard.
Is your cup half full or half empty?
It is pretty much that simple.
We are given opportunities to bring some of the most special people or animals into our world, in countless ways and in the course of life (and death) we are forced to summon the strength to say goodbye.
Some goodbyes are short term, and others are permanent. Both carry emotional impact that can leave us feeling a range of emotions from sad to devastated.
Emotions notwithstanding…. The ability to compartmentalize that sadness and remain focused on how incredibly fortunate we were to have had that person or animal or experience or circumstance in our world for the period it existed and appreciate its value in our life, is the true wealth.
The impermanence of life is the certainty. Life is transient. So the opportunity to focus on the variables that make us feel alive and vibrant is where our real treasure lies. There are countless examples that I shan’t expound upon. We have all gone through them.
But yesterday, I had the opportunity to say hello again to something that I had said goodbye to more than a year ago, and the reunion was magic. Pure magic.
I went to the movies.
Movies have always been my most favorite art form, bar none. I have seen more than 10,000 films and seeing them in the theater is still a totally different joy for me than watching on my TV at home.
The selection of films out at the moment is dismal. The film I saw, Wrath of Man, was mediocre. But sitting in the theatre again made me feel like I was 5 years old again! I can’t express the joy, exhilaration and vibrance of being back to something that had been ripped away from my life.
No comparison to losing a loved one, loved animal, or any other loss we might experience, but it was a reminder that when you are reunited with something you were forced to say goodbye to, you are suddenly overcome with an unspeakable joy. And that joy stems from an understanding of what that experience, person, animal or other has made you feel. And those feelings stem from how lucky you were to have had it in the first place.
Thought for a Sunday.
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